This isn’t the holy grail, and becoming successful will never happen after reading an article, but it is certainly a start. Many people I know have asked me. “Gee, did you hit a mother-load or something? It seems you have no worries, and doing very well.” When I tell them “No mother-load, but thanks for seeing me this way.” They stare confused and ask me what I do, and how I do it. While explaining sometimes, they still wander off, puzzled and sometimes amazed by the efforts I put into my website. My explanations lacked details about important things that help me ‘feel and see success‘. Money will come to you when you stop trying to hunt for it..
Funny perspective on money – Compare money with a little scared kitty. You will never catch it if you’re chasing it. Ignore it, and show love and affection towards the world. The kitty will eventually get curious, get closer, and eventually sit in your lap. It will love you and become a wealthy cat. Yes, a wealthy cat sounds funny but to most of nature wealth is a state of happiness and comfort. Enough of my perspectives, and on to the things you need to do before you become successful. My 5 secrets to become successful in what I do. “Maybe it will help you discover your own successful lifestyle too”
1 – Stop Being Selfish
Being selfish was never in my nature, but I realized that by doing certain things, selfishness was slightly present. A small adjustment in my perspectives after meeting a wonder writer named Ryan Biddulph. He has written 1000’s of articles and he has inspired me to continue expressing myself through writing. On many occasions, I have discussed with Ryan on many topics around personal development. He has shown me how complete selflessness can lead to success and prosperity.
Article by: Ryan Biddulph Stop being selfish by telling people how they should live. Stop telling individuals how to live, to suit you. Building your life according to the choices of individuals, trying to influence them, or pressure them, or coerce them, only makes you a selfish, unhappy individual. Let people go. Let go your own selfish interior motives. You can only grow your life by choosing to live your life and allowing other people to live their lives, whether these individuals be family, or friends, or anybody. Mind your own business, live your own life and release individuals you are close to, to live their own lives.
2 – Set Your Mind on Positive Thoughts
Acceptance is a powerful thought, and a positive one. Accept the thoughts that would normally influence you, and begin to understand the tool you are given by these emotions. Thinking of positive thoughts and focusing on acceptance, will attract those of similar nature back to you. You become a magnet for positive people. The ironic nature of even pushing away negative thoughts will only focus your emotions in a negative direction. It creates a larger reality of these negative thoughts. You cannot release on negative thoughts by resisting them. Focus on the positive. Allow thoughts of gratitude and well-being. Discover when your angers and frustrations block thoughts, or repel you from pushing on. When you give time to think about your emotions, you allow the energies to subside. This gives you an opportunity to bring yourself back to thoughts that could benefit the situation. Do you have your mind set on positive thoughts? Are you a magnet to positive people?
3 – Choose to Surround Yourself with Leaders
Followers will drag your energy, especially if you allow their influence upon you. Leaders will make awesome business partners. An obvious difference: Leaders lead and followers follow. Followers quit and leaders improve. You should no longer need to search for followers. Followers show up on their own because they are followers. I began spending time focusing on being a leader by connecting with leaders. I did not need to search for inspiration because inspiration was at my doorstep. When you connect and allow influence from people who are self motivated and focused, you begin to develop characteristics of those people. If you’re influenced by people who constantly wish success in their lives, and adapt to change, you’ll be motivated for change and success in your own.
4 – Use Your Unlimited Potential
The potential you are born with shouldn’t be underestimated. Become present in the moment. You can do whatever you want to do simply taking the time for it. Focus your attention towards inspiration and motivation that will direct your thoughts and actions toward your dreams. You have to let go of what may seem logical to you. I had no idea how I was going to begin reaching my goals. I had no idea of the perspectives I have now. Realize that some beliefs can be let go for new ones. By dong this I began to realize my unlimited potential. Your beliefs entirely, will decide if you discover your unlimited potential. Do you believe in your unlimited potential? Progress towards your hopes and dreams. Discover your goals, and unlock your unlimited potential
5 – Refuse to Quit
Keep going, be persisting. When you refuse to quit, the challenge begins, but this is the discovery of personal success. You learn everything you need to know about yourself by persisting through the toughest boundaries. When you refuse to quit, you will learn more about yourself than ever before. By quitting, you ultimately fail. Whether making a decent income or not, you never see TRUE success, until you refuse to quit. Only then, will you reach new levels of achievement and personal understanding.
Are you holding any secrets that bring success into your life?
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